How many times a day do you stop to look at things that surround you and relate to you? Give a quick think! In this fast-moving world of social networking, I suppose hardly anyone of you spends time to analyse yourself. Knowing yourself doesn’t only mean what things you like but rather it relates directly to the better choices and decisions you take up for your life. Trust me once you understand your deep down potential and zeal, you will be in the well of happiness beyond your imagination. Let’s find the ways to know yourself better.
Here are a few quick steps to get yourself know better. So, let’s start our journey down the lane…..
1. Waking up your conscious:-
It constitutes the most important or rather crucial work – ‘creating your own life timeline’. Setting up life goals helps you to carry a clear conception about yourself and your choices and helps you to move forward without getting deflected in the path of achieving your destination.
2. Be optimistic:-
Being optimistic doesn’t only being positive about things but also includes taking up your flaws and turning them into your strengths by working on them and getting rid of them rather than holding yourself down and crying over your negativity. Winning over your flaws is the brightest gift one can give oneself!
3. Question yourself:-
Questioning oneself about your deeds and upcoming decision in life plays a major role because they grant you a clear picture of what you should do next and act wisely. It also takes up the work of understanding others perspective before losing our calm over trifles. Asking oneself and taking up the right choice is also very important.
4. Find yourself a mentor:-
Finding a mentor is important because they don’t only guide us while walking through the path of success but also show us our very own image like a mirror. He makes us stand face to face to our strengths and weaknesses so that we can work on them accordingly. A mentor also guides us in picking up correct life choices and sometimes they are even are role model whom we follow. So, having a mentor or guide is really necessary to fathom your depth.
5. Spend some time in solitude:-
Every one is busy in today’s world but trust me out of twenty four hours a day if you spend at least an hour for yourself where you sit all alone listening to your favourite track and recalling the entire day’s chores and activities, you can actually give time to yourself, understand yourself more intensely and learn about the emotions which your heart bears. Spending time in solitude also ensures you mental peace which is again beneficial for happy mind and happy soul.
6. Love yourself:-
Last and the most important, loving oneself! It is really very important to love yourself because it sometimes happens that we start proving ourselves as someone else so much that we start losing our self. Never ever copy or imitate anyone because you are a different personality and unique in your own way. Comparing yourself makes you lose your own self-confidence and Aura which slowly takes you closer towards the deep ravine of depression.
Before I end up, I would just want to convey a message to all the readers that
“Love yourself, live yourself and never waste time in regret. Don’t lose your calm easily and neither be too ambitious or overconfident. Spread love among all those whom you meet in the path of your life and never give yourself to anyone so much that you don’t find yourself back!”